a lil nervous

Ok this may seem like an odd question but I"m hoping someone can provide some answers and be non-judgemental. I recently gout out of a lesbian affair. She had sex with me, but I never did anything sexual with her. Not really sure why, I guess it just didn't happen. Now I have the chance to be with another cool chic who has alot of experience in giving and receiving. So I guess what i'm asking is, what do I do? lol. I never told her that i never did anything cuz she didnt ask..

Hello,
Sorry to hear about your last relationship, but on a good note congratulations on the beginning of a new Lesbian life. It sounds like this cool new chic will be able to bring you happiness in so many good ways. The most important thing is to be honest and up front in a nice way. Who knows maybe if she understands it might even make the experience much more enjoyable. Simply talk to you new Gal friend and let her know your true feelings. In the end no matter what happens you will feel much better having it out in the open. On the other hand if you are not comfortable with talking to her, then maybe it might just be easier to let her take the lead and roll with it, allowing what ever happens to end up all good.

Good luck, I wish you lots of happiness and enjoyment.

Dawn

Yea, that makes sense. Thanks for responding!

My suggestion to friends/other woman that ask this kinda question.. Just do, touch, feel, lick.. the way you like to be touched, felt, licked.. ect.
Once you get started.. doing the things you fantasize about..think about doing to a partner, it all comes pretty natural.
Bet you'll be a champ at it!

With my experiance I think it made my ex girlfriend even more excited about being with me when I was new. Ill never forget the first time going down on her I had to pump myself up to do it but I liked it. I think it did help how strong my feelings were for this young lady. Just go with it is my advice. If you have chemistry things will go smoothly. Experiment and focus on body language it tells the story. Sometimes anticipation helps so talking about it before actually doing it makes it more so real when the dead is being done. Waiting tilll afterwards probably gives that "sure it your first time" awkwardness. Not like I would know but whatever's.

All of the above advice is awesome....but most important is definatly talking to your partner. You can even let her teach you what she likes....and what she doesnt. Keep the lines of communication open. You will KNOW if your doing something right...most definatly lol

I'm in the same situation!

The ladies are right! Talk, talk, and talk some more. Not only is this foreplay it's necessary to understand what each person likes. Talk before, during and after. Laugh when you can, hold her close and dear to your heart. She will let you know, and you will know because it all come natural.
If you're not sure what she likes ask. She will appreciate that you are totally into pleasing her.

Don't worry Misty, it only gets better.