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Hey Lost-Painter.
As crappy as your situation is making you feel... I think something positive can come out of this. I honestly believe that everything happens for a reason but I also believe that it is possible to fall in love with a persons soul... not just their sex.
I think it's good that this girl you've fallen for (and likewise for her) is willing to try to work things through with you. I think the important thing to remember is to be honest with her and yourself & keep in mind that your happiness is the most important thing.
Good luck.

Baby Did A Bad Bad Thing!

How sweet falling in love is, even over the internet. I know. I carried on some of the hotest, smokiest chats with my Lady, via long distance. We never wanted to end those chats.
They couldn't have been anymore steamy, or seductive. Many times I got so caught up in the moment, I was crazy with desire! I wanted her to come thru the computer, NOW! That very second & take me!

Baby, the difference between my chats & yours -
To play cards with guys you kept your gender a secret by role playing as a man. That was just for the sake of being taken for a card player. The distance from the male players was a precaution that makes sense.
BUT, Baby Did A Bad Bad Thing!
Your choice to deceive your dream girl produced the outcome you deserve - Zip! Next time, be real. And be careful the internet is full of creeps.

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Hello,
Sorry to hear about your situation. I agree with Cass, maybe something good will come out of this in the end. As for figuring out if you are Lesbian or not, it is perfectly okay to be a bit confused. Having an attraction to another girl does not always mean your what you think. The other options include bisexual. If you find yourself likening this girl, then I would not worry about putting any kind of label on yourself. Simply follow your heart, don’t worry about the other stuff. No matter what happens, if your parents love you then they will support what ever you choose in life. As for the old Yahoo profile, I would assume since this was setup for online gamming, maybe you both can exchange real email address in order to get to know each other much better. Then I might suggest closing the old yahoo profile. The reason I say all this is because , close the old account and starting communicating up front through a real email instead of some kind of fake one then you both will feel better about getting to know each other. I also think if you start by getting to now each other as friends, then in time the rest will happen when it feels right.

Good luck

Dawn

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