Forum : Uhauling : All things love and dating! http://www.shewired.com/forum/ http://dirtywhiteboi67.blogspot.com/2009/11/femme-invisibility-butch-invisibility.html dirt http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=F3AAAF5B-19BB-3778-629C287291406645&r=1 2009-11-14T17:08:19-08:00 Femme Invisibility-Butch Invisibility There are several books for lesbians that claim to help aid in a relationship. My girlfriend and I started reading them and using them as resources, but then we realized, our relationship really isn't much different than a heterosexual relationship except for society's views. (Well, and the marriage and pregnancy thing..) Some of the sexual help books have really only been a conversation starter, but not actual help. The one that we purchased seem to be very out there and not much help for beginners. It actually scared her in the begininning. I ordered a book on amazon last week that talked about lesbian conception and pregancy just because I am curious. That is far off for us though. Have you found any books that have served as a helpful resource or have many just been an entertainment type of thing? http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=AE79E51B-19BB-3778-60709B6CA8B81B72&r=2 2009-07-24T20:35:39-08:00 Have books aided in your relationship? The August Drinks Party is on Friday 7th August at The Arts Club in Mayfair, London from 7pm- midnight & continue the night at Shadow Lounge in Soho by collecting one of the complimentary admission passes. Our members and guests are all ages and professions, a great place to network, flirt and make new friends. There is no entrance charge and wine is served free from 7- 8pm... Enter our LUCKY DRAW; all guests have an equal chance of winning? To view more details simply click http://www.velvet-club.com/events/lesbian_events_london_glpaugust09.php http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=79A82EC3-19BB-3778-60206174E1DBAA42&r=3 2009-07-14T14:26:21-08:00 GLP Velvet Ill have to figure that one out sooner, would you mind adding me ? :) http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=3EBA1738-19BB-3778-604D681092B91202&r=4 2009-07-03T03:48:18-08:00 newbie here Yes, actually if you go to your profile you can find people on here, add them as friends you can have private conversations and send messages.xxkg http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=3E552DB2-19BB-3778-60EF15CF675085A2&r=5 2009-07-03T01:58:05-08:00 newbie here i dont usually take vacations but i went to amsterdam this past feb. that was awesome. haha is there a way to send pvt msgs? or chat on here? http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=3D98EC0B-19BB-3778-60C5B628FA20354F&r=6 2009-07-02T22:32:27-08:00 newbie here sign language and good convos are great. interesting people ! and subjects :) http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=3D97E78E-19BB-3778-606609D421FC8E5E&r=7 2009-07-02T22:31:21-08:00 newbie here Cost of living is usually no big deal as long as the jobs nearby pay well. Yeah, I lived in California when I was a kid. From Lake Havasu City so Im very aquinted with Ocean Side and places in So Cal. Its a lot of work to go further then that. I figure why not just go to Vegas or Mexico if Im feeling froggy. So where do you go when its vacation time? You mainly consume your time with running, music, movies and fireside/tea time chats? Any other interests?xxkg http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=3D8B7699-19BB-3778-608647182E89282D&r=8 2009-07-02T22:17:45-08:00 newbie here born and raised here. its expensive to live but a great city!!!! great place lots of things. deff come visit!! lots of music and cool places. it all deppends on what part you live in though also ! -kate http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=3D6174BB-19BB-3778-6056456BBF547E19&r=9 2009-07-02T21:31:52-08:00 newbie here Hello, Welcome to Shewired. How do you like LA? Thinking of moving to that direction in life if I ever decide Im done with contracting. Take care and good luck! xxkg http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=3D4780D7-19BB-3778-603323126DEEEA3A&r=10 2009-07-02T21:03:32-08:00 newbie here couldnt find a newbie board on here. so i thought id say hi !! name is Kate from LA, CA (818/661) single i love music and movies. running and friends. cant wait to meet new friends and of course hopefully more!! hope everyone is well !!! im still learning how to navigate this site! XOX K PS. what happened to LN :( http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=38959C64-19BB-3778-609D3B78CC635337&r=11 2009-07-01T23:10:44-08:00 newbie here Hi,.... I would like to explore this world with women and that's why I am also a bit shy ...not there yet but would like to chat and get there... A newbie! http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=15988747-19BB-3778-60CB27EB5605F14C&r=12 2009-06-25T04:07:13-08:00 Finding Friends/Lovers Can Be Fun No I'm not - yet, but good thing we live quite close to each other. http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=BA7991CF-19BB-3778-60A00E22D8F08A8B&r=13 2009-06-07T11:27:57-08:00 Are You a Uhaul Cliche? I moved in with my GF about a month into our relationship! It was easy as she lived two doors down the road, so I didn't even need a truck! It was complicated as both of my male house mates were in love with her, and once they discovered we were 'together', they both moved out - leaving me with the lease etc! I didn't have much choice. We were together for about two years after that... I doubt I would ever move in with someone that quickly again, as once I had moved in with then GF, her mental health issues, really came to light, maybe it was a good thing? I'll never know... http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=B3F68A5F-19BB-3778-6057EA5A8D89B6C8&r=14 2009-06-06T05:07:07-08:00 Are You a Uhaul Cliche? Yes i can safely say i fit the bill. I moved in with my ex a couple of months after meeting her, six years later we parted ways due we grew apart. We changed and wanted different things from the relationship. I must say tho, there are times when i do miss her. http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=B318AB87-19BB-3778-60C1A93DD5819BD4&r=15 2009-06-06T01:04:46-08:00 Are You a Uhaul Cliche? The first time I heard the term U-haul I cracked up. My girlfriend and I had been planning to move in together before we were even a couple! Once we were together it was just like an accepted fact. Score one for the cliche! http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=A8523C3D-19BB-3778-6075D12E42D377BE&r=16 2009-06-03T22:51:50-08:00 Are You a Uhaul Cliche? ha ha, yes be seductive. Pick someone that you're attracted to and make sure you pay more attention to them. Give them that smile, make eye contact, try to make physical contact. I love a girl that makes eye contact and keeps it when I notice. It gives you the chance to make the moment special and memorable. http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=3D53F261-19BB-3778-608E3FBEAF092B94&r=17 2009-05-14T04:14:20-08:00 Any suggestions? Join us for a glass of wine on Friday 5th June 2009 at The Arts Club in Mayfair, London from 7pm- midnight & continue the night at Shadow Lounge in Soho by collecting one of the complimentary admission passes. No entrance charge and Wine served free from 7- 8pm? Missed your chance to see Penn?s Oscar winning performance in MILK? Fear not, it?s out on DVD June 8. To celebrate Velvet?CLUB have teamed up with Momentum Pictures to offer you the chance to win: A Fantastic Home Entertainment System (26? Flat Screen TV, surround sound and DVD player) plus 30 Prizes Winners will each receive their very own DVD of MILK. So come along to the Velvet-Club Drinks Party on 5th June and pop a card with your name in the Champagne Bucket. The winners of the home entertainment system and the 30 MILK DVD?s will be drawn that night!! RSVP: Just send an email to susie@velvet-club.com including your full name and those of up to 3 guests. To view more details simply click on the Velvet-Club events page http://www.velvet-club.com/events/lesbian_events_london_glpjune09.php If you can?t make it this time, subscribe your email address and we will send you the invitation for the next event!!! http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=3A41F195-19BB-3778-60015FBD9D5CD954&r=18 2009-05-13T13:55:48-08:00 GLP Velvet Stop being nice, be seductive :twisted: http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=0F8501B2-19BB-3778-608BBD5098E3C9CE&r=19 2009-05-05T06:45:23-08:00 Any suggestions? I came out to my friends and family 2 years ago and for the most part I've enjoyed life outside of the closet. My group of friends has grown considerably and it seems that the new people in my life enjoy my company. The problem? Every new person I meet turns into one more friend. This has me wondering, what could I possibly be doing wrong? I'd like to meet a girl that would like to be more than friends. http://www.shewired.com/forum/messages.cfm?messageid=0D37A414-19BB-3778-60825540112F1224&r=20 2009-05-04T20:01:38-08:00 Any suggestions?